You live in Canberra and haven’t been to the snow? I went to Jindabyne and to Thredbo in summer, haha quite pointless really. Oh God it was the worst, so boring. The whole place is pretty much dead sheep and rocks.
Anyways. I have given you my advice already but layer, layer, layer!!! Team with a nice scarf. I really believe accessories can make almost any outfit look good. Missoni do the nicest scarves ever, you may be able to find some at a good price on eBay. Definitely pack a good pair of wool tights to wear under dresses, skirts etc. They keep you so warm.
It might be hard finding winter clothes and the only cardis they seem to have around now are quite thin, but if you layer them you will keep warm without looking all bulked up. Maybe just pack basics and once you’re over there you can suss out the fashion and go shopping!
Let me know how you go with finding some man style pants!
I love the ones that are loose fitting around the top but go in below the knee. With a thin belt and an awesome pair of sky high heels for nights out you can’t go wrong! I love that look. Just try stuff on while you’re in Melbourne and if you feel comfortable in it buy it!!!